🎈 The Illness of Independence

For 27 years, independence has been my priority, and freedom my highest value. I avoided deep relationships because they felt constraining, laden with responsibilities, and compromising. My mantra was simply, "Do me."

Things have changed.

Now, I'm contemplating: would life be more fulfilling if I sacrificed my independence for relationships that truly nourish me?

Over the years, my values have shifted, you see. While I once prioritized freedom, peak experiences, and adventure, I now cherish community and relationships, being present for my loved ones instead of being adventurous.