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🎈Force vs. flow, the award of rejection, social health rituals
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🎈Force vs. flow, the award of rejection, social health rituals

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Aloha Connection Catalyst!

I’ve led a few beach dance parties, hosted a fountain splash dance, and received my first ever By-Law violation.

Today you’ll learn to…

  1. Reframe rejection as an award for risk-taking.

  2. Distinguish when to use force vs. flow as a facilitator.

  3. Understand your social health as a pivotal factor in mental health.

⚠ Below is the public version from last week.

The bane of humankind — the symptoms appear when its too late.

INSPIRATION: DANCE

Dancing need not look like anything. For me, dancing is about enjoyment, not about performance. Dancing is a translation of emotion into movement.

Perhaps what prevents people from dancing is the indoctrination that dance is a performance art. It is and it isn’t.

For me, it isn’t. For me, dance is a way to connect and experience joy.

👇🏽 Me, dancing at my Adult Summer Camp in California.

READ: MICRO-DISTRACTIONS

Micro-distractions are destroying your relationships.

WATCH: ACTIVITY

The Vortex Dance from my beach flash mob.


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