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🎈 intimate gatherings & intelligent exclusion

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I facilitated a 3-day retreat in a cabin in the woods, explored the relationship between capitalism and community-building, and published an article about airtime — a critical concept for human connection enthusiasts.

LISTEN 🎧 TO LEARN THESE SKILLS…

  1. Promote more meaningful, interactive dialogues in groups

  2. Design intimate experiences versus mass-scale

  3. Create prerequisites for your community & exclude people

  4. Transition from small-talk to deep-talk


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ONE QUOTE — Correcting

When you correct someone, you are signaling that you don't like what they are saying. The ego wants to be right. The ego wants to find differences. When you feel the urge to correct someone, at least let them finish… Or better, ask a question instead.

One thing I witness people do all the time is interrupt and correct people that they're connecting with. It leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

ONE BEHAVIOR — Curiosity

Ask, “What’s your theory?” if you sense argumentation arising.

I read about this in a negotiation book. I’ve added it to my list of ‘power phrases’ that I regularly use in my life.

ONE RESOURCE — Minimalism

This encapsulates my life philosophy very well. It also features my meditation teacher: Sam Harris, who speaks about how distracted the world is.

Key quote: Love people, use things. Not the other way around.

ONE PERSONAL UPDATE

As you may know, I have an ecommerce business. This week, I went out on the streets and gifted PeeSport Pee Bottles to Amazon Drivers. They were happy!


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